Awww, sorry to hear what you and your wife are going through..... I hope things get better for yall! I will pray for yall:)

Sounds like a really hard situation for everyone.  =(  It's always hard to focus on yourself when stressful things are going on around you.  I'm sorry you are having to deal with this.  Take a deep breath....just coming here will put you back on track. 

Sorry I haven't been around, but I have sick cats and two brothers had to be put to sleep.  They supposely tested positive for Feline Distemper. They were health until they came down with a respitory infection. The 1st little guy went fast so no chance to even try anything.  His brother then went the same way.  I just buried the two of them together, they came into this world together, lived together and now left together...only 1-1/2 yrs old...too young.  Another one has been tested and they say he has it but he's eating like there is no tomorrow so he might stand a chance to survive it.  I really lost my faith in prayer as I watch them die. Now I just hope for a miracle no one else has it.  They all are indoor cats that were vaccinated. With the amount of homeless kitties running around we might have tracked it in or the first one caught it at the emergency clinic and brought it back home...5 days later it took him.

So I don't know what my weight is and I did stree eating so once things calm down around here then I'll re-focus on myself.

I wish all of you the best on your journeys and hope no one goes thru what we are. We don't have kids so the cats are our babies.

Tim